Category Archives: FAMLIY LIFE

My Son, Mr. Kai Ryder is born!!!


My son was born on the 22nd at a healthy 5lbs and 14oz and 18in long… Tomorrow he will be a week old and I have enjoyed it all… My son looks so much like his dad… He already has the ladies coming after him… I’m learning to balance out everything and get him on some kind of schedule… To tell you the truth I’m more on his schedule… I go back to work in six weeks and I hope my boss will work with me to adapt to my new schedule… I know she will, she the best… Tomorrow I’m suppose to go to the Cloth Diaper Store in Plano so I can at least get me 2 diaper covers to start with and some snappi with the goddaddy… Also this store has awesome stuff and programs for both me and Kai… I fell in love with it online, I hope to fall in love in person…


43 days left


Well it has been a while since I’ve posted something… Today I have 30 days until my Leave starts… I’m kind of freaking out now since I’ve so close… I know a lot of people say I’m crazy for the way I want to have and raise my child, but I feel great in the way I want my child… And I’m tired of people tell me to wait for the baby to get here to know how it feels to be a parent… No duh I’ve been waiting nearly 10 months… I’m trying to get the basic and the important stuff out of the way so I can pursuit my goal I still haven’t figure out what I want to do… I know what I want to do takes some time and effort, but for Tamir and I to start our own businesses we have to breastfeed and use cloth diapers… We can send so much money to help us get our businesses off  the ground and make a better future for our child(ren)… And I don’t want any drugs in my system that might harm my child… Even after reading some stuff about what they have been doing for years now I feel safer with a natural birth like women have been doing before they starting using drugs…

Daily Prompt: The Excitement Never Ends


Tell us about the last thing you got excited about — butterflies-in-the-stomach, giggling, can’t-wait excited. 

The last thing I got really excited about is the first time I got to see my baby when I did my first ultrasound… To see a human being growing inside me I felt so excited that I couldn’t wait to meet this person I made… Now I’m closer to meeting this person and now I’m excited to play and get to know this person… As soon as it gets here, it will truly be Never Ending Excitement and all of our lives…

The Baby Is Almost Here


So I’m almost finished with my pregnancy and the baby will arrive sometime around November 12… I’m a little scared, but I’m ready for the baby to get here… I’ve been looking forward to meeting my child and so has it’s dad… I’m hoping for a little girl, which is what everyone thinks it is anyways… We have three boys already and just two girl we need another one to even out the playing field…  I know my man wants a boy, but at this point I think he only wants a healthy baby… I excited to start breastfeeding when the baby does come… now the only thing I’m worried about is how long I will do it… Most women stop at least by the time the baby is six moths and others wait til their first year… They recommend to at least two… I really hope I can do i for as long as I can or until we get ready to have our second one…  I really want to figure out what I want to do for a living so many things I can do, but I don’t know what I really want to do… I hope it comes to me pretty soon… Tamir has an idea of what he wants to do… I’m still kind of stuck… What can a feel truly happy doing and have the freedom I have with my family while helping provide for them… After I get the other fun out of the way I can completely pay attention to myself and my career… I hope I can figure out something so…

Daily Prompt: Blogger With a Cause


If your day to day responsibilities were taken care of and you could throw yourself completely behind a cause, what would it be?

If my day to day responsibilities were taken care of, I could throw myself completely into help a Cat Shelter and also help women and children… I’ve been wanting help cat other than my own which I save from a shelter… I know there are also a lot of women and children that need help with life itself… Since I’ve became pregnant I’ve been in to things that deal more with women and child… I hope some point in my life I’ll be an expert on breastfeeding to help other women on it… I want to be able to completely promote healthy organic life… Down to the way I feed all the member of my family(cats and human)… Food means a lot to me… without it you can’t live…. 

Daily Prompt: I’d Like to Thank My Love